FUD: Fear/Uncertainty/Doubt

Kids|Teaching|Parenting

 

Let me explain, no, let me sum up April 30, 2008

Filed under: rambling anecdotes — Tracy @ 9:45 pm

* Placement starts next Monday. I am underprepared in terms of paperwork right now. Woo! However, I am well equipped wardrobe-wise, thanks to my mother.

* Over the past week we’ve had gas-powered hot water installed and ripped out an interior wall, as our new heatpump made the gas fireplace redundant. Renovation is fun, in an unexpected “oh crap, no one said there was a huge lump of concrete behind this wall” sort of way. Our bank account is unimpressed.

* Mike may be allergic to our new kittycat, who is tentatively named Kira. We’re going to hold on for a few more days. If things don’t work out (as in Mike doesn’t stop sneezing or wheezing), then she will hopefully return to her previous owners.

* I took Ethan to Horton Hears a Who today. He loved it. It was very spur of the moment and not conducive to my placement preparation [see first note, above].

(Renovation photos will undoubtedly follow.)

 
 

“There is something about the presence of a cat that seems to take the bite out of being alone.” - Louis J. Camuti April 20, 2008

Filed under: rambling anecdotes — Tracy @ 10:28 pm

We are currently three in our house, Mike being on a work trip to Rhode Island and Maine. I am amusing myself in the evenings by watching Sopranos DVDs, spending too much time on the internet, and doing laundry. Life sure is exciting! I have to limit myself to two episodes of Sopranos at most per evening because otherwise my adrenalin levels are so high I need to eat something just so I have dishes to wash.

Anyhoo.

I got us a cat! Poor Mike. A college friend has had kittens (well, obviously, her cat had them, she only feeds and shelters them), and had offered us a kitten a couple of months ago. I thought about it, and talked to Mike, and he thought about it, and neither of us was willing to make the decision. Getting a pet is a pretty big decision, really.

Going back a bit further, like, uh, to when Amy was about 18 months old, she developed a paralysing fear of animals. We went to a friend’s house one day for coffee and playtime, and Amy and Ethan ran to the door and rang the bell. The friend’s daughter opened the door without thinking and their large labrador cross leapt out straight into Amy, barking loudly and jumping excitedly all over us. He was just happy to see us, but he towered over poor Amy and she has never been the same since. It’s slowly getting better, but for a while she would see a dog across the road and start whimpering and trying to literally climb my legs to get away from it. Now she will stop and think, and sometimes she will try commanding a barking dog to BE QUIET! but if it turns towards her she does the whimper-leg-climbing thing again.

So I knew we needed to give her plenty of experience with smaller, gentler animals to help regain her confidence (obviously caution is good, but not in such great doses), and the kitten seemed ideal. But then there’s toilet training, behavioural stuff (kids and cat), what happens if we go on holiday, etc.

With Mike away this time for slightly longer than usual, and the kids being tired and cranky and sick for part of the time, I have been tired and cranky and stressed off and on as well. They’ve actually been great, really, but they have the usual periods of grump and fighting and whingeing and in the evenings I collapse, too tired to do much else but dread the next day.

So we got the cat, who is now about five months old, housetrained and children-trained. She has been here for just over 24 hours and we have only lost her once! This morning I made the executive decision to let her out to explore the section, and she immediately disappeared next door (who would’ve thought?). We went to find her and she turned out to be stuck up a cabbage tree and only came down in the end because the back-fence neighbours started a car right below her perch, which scared her half to death. She hasn’t been outside since. She is asleep beside me, and having a cat to snuggle with and pat and be nuzzled by, and for the kids to talk to and amuse, has given us all a much-needed distraction while Mike is gone. Amy is still nervous if the cat approaches her, but happily follows the cat around the house, making cootchie-cootchie noises at her. Ethan is putting into practice things he has been learning at school about caring for pets and reminds me that our cat needs food, water, sleep, and cuddles.

Kitty

 
 

“Writing is an exploration. You start from nothing and learn as you go.” - E.L. Doctorow April 13, 2008

Filed under: darndest things, photoblogging — Tracy @ 10:38 pm

\"My name is Spongebob,\" said Spongebob.
“My name is Spongebob,” said Spongebob.
(more…)

 
 

“Life is partly what we make it, and partly what it is made by the friends we choose.” - Tennessee Williams

Filed under: darndest things — Tracy @ 8:26 pm

Ethan has become a big schoolboy fish in a small daycare pond. When we pick Amy up after school, the four-year-olds rush to gather around Ethan, hug him, ask to play tag with him, show him the cool cardboard-box truck they’ve made that day. I caught him being hugged and kissed by two girls the other day in the middle of a game of Duck Duck Goose. One of the girls in lives just down the street from us, and seems to really like Ethan, so I invited her to our house last week (via her mother).

The two of them, and Amy, had a fantastic time playing, riding their scooters, eating ripe figs and grapes and Kit-Kat bars for afternoon tea (the chocolate bars being a gift from our visitor (via her mother)) and playing board games when it got cold outside. After they’d eaten and returned outside, I came out to put a jacket on Amy. Ethan came up to me in the middle of a race with his friend, and leaned to whisper in my ear, “I like her!”

It was adorable. I think he was taken by surprise; he tolerated her at daycare because she was one of his adoring fans, and I don’t think he cared one way or the other that she was coming to play. But then it turned out that she liked scooters and Megablocks and playing BiJingo just like he did! She was actually kind of cool! And so they could be friends. Aw.

Also, Ethan has written a book. About Spongebob. I will follow up with photos and translations of his phonemic-style spelling.

 
 

More words from Amy April 12, 2008

Filed under: rambling anecdotes — Tracy @ 12:41 pm

It can work! No, it can’t work.
[What can't work?]
The heat pump can’t work.
[Why can't the heat pump work?]
‘Cos it’s, ‘cos it’s broken.
There’s two cars. ‘Cos two cars broke it. [How?]
‘Cos they’re naughty. They’re naughty, eh? ‘Cos their battery’s flat.
We have to fix them. We have to pull the batteries out.

(Roleplaying — apparently the aforementioned two cars are Mum and Dad.)
Mama. I don’t know. Dad, what are you doing, Dad?
I said what are you doing, Dad. Ummm, I’m doing work. Okay, bye.
I’m broken, Mummy.
Want a cuddle? (kissing noises) Good. Bye Daddy.
How was your work? Mum, how was your college? Good. No, I didn’t go, I’m at college.

[What are you doing?]
Um, I’m working. You’re the Dad, Mum. I’m the Mum.
What are you doing, Dad?
[I'm working at work. What are you doing, Mum?]
Um, I’m just driving. Mrrrooommmm. [Where are you going?]
Um, I don’t know. In the garage. Okay bye!

 
 

Because I want you all to suffer. As I have suffered. April 9, 2008

Filed under: random linkage — Tracy @ 10:55 pm

Magic Pen, a Flash game using REAL PHYSICS!! and crayons. It will keep you up for hours. And hours.

And then, four days later, you’ll finally put down the mouse, gaze blearily at your neglected family, and say something like, “I don’t know who I am. Help me, strange people.”

Finally, after the intervention, you can thank me.

 
 

“You might be a firefighter if your kids are afraid to get into water fights with you.” April 7, 2008

Filed under: photoblogging — Tracy @ 9:36 pm

I don’t know what the Firewise mascot’s name really is. I hope it is Krispy Kiwi, with a sort of singed-around-the-edges look. We went to the Rangiora Volunteer Fire Brigade’s open day yesterday at which the kids saw a car get cut open, an airport firetruck, a, well, a guy dressed up as a firefighting kiwi, and Ethan ran an obstacle course to save a giant stuffed bear from a fire. The bear survived, thanks to Ethan’s courage and dedication to the safety of bears everywhere.

Letting it all hang out

 
 

“The one thing children wear out faster than shoes is parents.” April 6, 2008

Filed under: shopping — Tracy @ 8:47 pm

New shoes!

I didn’t think to show that they have cool detachable ankle straps, so you’ll have to take my word for it.

 
 

“Good teaching is one-fourth preparation and three-fourths theatre.” (Gail Godwin) April 5, 2008

Filed under: old-skool, shopping — Tracy @ 8:44 pm

Next month I go on my second teaching placement. I never really talked much about the first, last November, but it went well, I passed, and I met some great teachers and kids.

In the first year of college, we get one placement, at the end of the year, teaching full control for three half-days. This year we have two: one for five weeks in May, one for five weeks in August. Busy, busy. I start on May 5 and finish on June 6, and I have to do three whole days of full control, teaching in at least four curriculum areas. Not so bad, really. We’re required to teach literacy (which actually includes reading, story writing, handwriting, oral presentation and visual presentation) and numeracy (which is, of course, plain old math(s)), and I will probably teach PE (which includes 15-20 minutes of daily fitness as well as a weekly lesson devoted to a specific skill, sport or concept) and science, which may yet be the simplest to plan of the lot. I think I’ll get the students to help me write a class book of my time at the school — they’re Year 2, which is 6-7 year olds — and do lots of photography with them. Ideally I’d like to include a lot of outside-the-classroom time, making the most of autumn before it gets cold, so I’ll need to plan lessons that would work inside or outside.

This is mostly a lot of thinking on-screen, as opposed to thinking out loud. I’ve been working on my wardrobe since I recently rediscovered a factory/outlet store that I thought had shut down years ago. I bought a pair of boots (brown suede flat sole) and a pair of flats with ankle straps (black with cherries, so not me but so cool!) of which I may need to post photos. Instead of planning my units, I’m planning my outfits. Heh.

The school I’m going to is on a pretty tangible boundary between the “historic”, snobby part of Christchurch and the drab state-housing area northwest of the city. When I mention it by name, people instantly give me a knowing look, a sort of “Oh, posh!” thing which I would have done before last year as well, but we visited them for an afternoon last year to observe numeracy teaching and I know the demographics. Although the city-side of the school is wealthy, the poorer side is the main feed into the school — wealthy families choose to send their children to schools where the others are more like them, more homogeneous, such as private or integrated schools with a religious focus — and so the overall school population comes from a low socio-economic background.

For all that, the children are, of course, a gorgeous, lively pack of wild animals who can’t sit still any longer than the average 6-year-old. There are two who speak almost no English, which will be a huge challenge for me, and one who doesn’t like new people, so I will be spending some extra time in the class before placement in order to let that child get used to me.

It’s my dream placement, I think. My Associate (the teacher in charge of that class) wants me to do as much as possible and although I think she’ll be less interested in helping me with the planning process, she’s enthusiastic and hardworking and knows her kids well. There’s a great mix of kids, the resources in the school seem more than adequate (so far!) and the teachers I’ve met in my short visit seemed friendly too.

I am excited!

 
 

“I have never let my schooling interfere with my education.” (Mark Twain) April 4, 2008

Filed under: rambling anecdotes — Tracy @ 8:21 pm

Yesterday I had a parent-teacher meeting with the erstwhile Miss T (who is now a Mrs), to discuss Ethan’s first two months of school. Here’s the highlights:

* Scored perfect on the six-year sight word test
* Knows his alphabet and all the associated sounds
* Needs more work with numbers, especially counting backwards from twenty-something
* He’s a leftie! This was actually a surprise and is a fair indication that I have not actually looked at Ethan since he was born. Hence he has a terrible pencil grip and can’t hold scissors. Am trying to find a place that sells left-handed pencils online
* Thrives on routine, something we have taken advantage of FOREVER

The sad story that followed is this:
There is a huge influx of small children hoping to attend Ethan’s school this year. Huge. There are only two new-entrant classrooms, and a third opens up midway through term 3 when numbers in rooms 1 and 2 get too high. Miss T said last year before room 1A opened, she had a ridiculous 31, THIRTY ONE YES YOU READ CORRECTLY children in her class. This year is looking even worse, so the syndicate is hoping to pre-empt the overcrowding by sending some of the more competent kids up to a year one classroom.

When? I asked.

At the start of term 2, she replied. That is IN ONE MONTH.

But, she said, he’s academically ready, sure, but not really socially. I agreed most vehemently, but after consideration I have to agree that if anyone does have to move up, it should be him over someone who will be lost in a classroom with bigger children. I just wish we didn’t have to think about it already.

The upside is that some of his friends will go up too, so he won’t be the only new kid. He’ll be challenged and he’ll meet new children, and admittedly a lot of the room 1 kids are less mature and prepared for school than him, while room 3 kids are probably more on his level.

But we really, really like Miss T. Apparently the other day, Ethan went to her and said he had to give her a super-huge cuddle in case he ran out later, and did so. He adores her and she loves her room 1 kids. Children from other classes come to visit her. She has a great rapport with the parents and I enjoy hanging out in her classroom and doing little chores when I have free time, playing with her laminator and NOT SETTING IT ON FIRE OR DAMAGING SMALL CHILDREN.

Ethan’s not allowed to know about it yet because it’s not foregone, only a possibility right now. I think he’ll be quite upset when he finds out, at least until the excitement of a new classroom and new teacher and bunch of kids kicks in. And he’ll have been very lucky to have had such an awesome teacher for his first term at school.

 
 
 

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